Kelly & Scott
February 29, 2020
I’ve always found writing blogs to be bittersweet. Bitter because I can never seem to find the right words to describe a couples love, and sweet because isn’t that what makes love so grand?
No matter how similar, no two relationships are parallel — they are perfectly imperfect and entirely unique to the individual people we are. We all come from differing walks of life, and connect as something ordinary to create a bond that’s extraordinary.
The love I’ve witnessed between Kelly and Scott is no exception. Their wedding day was filled with belly laughs so strong they made you fall over, 90s music — because lets be real, a celebration without 90s alternative is missing something — and love so true it would make you cry. No, it did make us cry. All of us. It was authentic and true, and everything I could’ve hoped for them.
Since I’m not married, and have no place providing advice to couples for a love everlasting, I’m going to end their blog with a quote. I don’t know much about marriage or relationships, but I do know that being human comes with inevitable imperfection. I’ve witnessed the love of many couples over the years, and the one truth remains that by choosing to marry someone and choose them as your forever person — you’re choosing them for all the seasons, not just the good ones.
Thank you for having me as a part of your day, Kelly and Scott. I love you both and wish you a life full of adventure and love. xx
“Marry your best friend. I do not say that lightly. Really, truly find the strongest, happiest friendship in the person you fall in love with. Someone who speaks highly of you. Someone you can laugh with. The kind of laughs that make your belly ache, and your nose snort. The embarrassing, earnest, healing kind of laughs. Wit is important. Life is too short not to love someone who lets you be a fool with them. Make sure they are somebody who lets you cry, too. Despair will come. Find someone that you want to be there with you through those times. Most importantly, marry the one that makes passion, love, and madness combine and course through you. A love that will never dilute - even when the waters get deep, and dark.”